Sunburnt on Tuesday, January 10, 2006
Juz came back from tampines with lim teh at the coffee bean, as usual goofing around, with occasional some serious chats about what we gona do with our life.
Isn't it so true that frens juz can't be too close? I am sure alot of us experienced that in one way or another. May be because under constant exposure to each other means under constant chances for attrition, with more allowances for each other's "guai pi" to surface out.
That may be a situation that all of us have to go through. We guys deal it differently from gals. Gals feel disturbed, hurt, chagrined, upset,while we mainly juz shake it off like an irritable fruit fly on ur banana.
We are not infallible, thats for sure; there are times when our insensitivities shot out at people around us and probably that is done to our oblivion...
All i can say is we juz need to look at these things from a totally different angle of view. Sometimes on a pragmatic level, we ought to class frenships into various levels. I believe one is acquaintances, one is soul mate, one friends on a common goal and interest level. There are times when frens become acquaintances while there are times when frens become soul mate.
So...for me i hack care one haha. Can't be bothered. =P
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